Throughout a relationship, there will be many bittersweet instances, when you sex-life either feels unrealistically amazing or annoyingly obligatory.
Well, if you have been a relationship for the longest of time, you’ll know it very well.
While it may have felt like heaven when you were in your honeymoon period, with time, there may come a time, when you feel your partner has had enough and wants to take a break.
Most probably your partner will not be vocal about it but they will surely leave indirect signs that will confirm your doubt.
That being said, here are some subtle signs your partner has stopped enjoying sex with you.
1. They hardly talk about sex at all
If your partner wants to have sex with you or feel like they’re on top of the world when they are doing it with you, they they’ll surely talk dirty and raise the sex-tempo. However, if they seem dismissed and disinterested to do the same, they’re not really up for it anytime soon.
2. They’re asleep before you
Do you think your partner is mostly tired these days or are they sleeping even before you get into the bed? Then there surely is a problem. It’s clear that they are trying to avoid you and any form of sexual intimacy with you.
3. They make up excuses to avoid it
Saying no to sex once in a while is a natural thing, but making up excuses every time you initiate it is definitely a sign that they aren’t enjoying sex with you. Even if they don’t do it regularly, you can surely make out a difference between a real and a pretentious excuse.
4. They don’t initiate it anymore
Considering, your partner was always the one to initiate sex earlier, the fact that they don’t now is alarming and disturbing at the same time. If you feel you’re the only one who is interested in keeping your sex-life alive, then maybe there’s actually a problem.
5. Every time you bring up the topic, they change the subject
One of the most subtle yet obvious signs that they aren’t enjoying sex with you is that they avoid or try and change the topic of sex whenever you bring it up.
6. Sex, on their part, seems like an obligation now
Do you feel there is an air of obligation in the room when you’re having sex with your partner? Do they act as though they are just doing it for the same of making you happy? Then it is clear that they are not enjoying it rather are feeling forced to do it, which surely isn’t enjoyable, is it?
