Dear Admin, I have been living with my boyfriend for the last two years. I love Him so much but his violent habit is becoming too much. He picks up fights over small things like when I receive a phone call from a male friend, or even my relatives whom he has met. He hates it when I visit or host friends in our house. He is two years older than me and he loves me too much. Truth is beneath the possessiveness and bad temper is a man I see as a potential father and caring husband. He provides, cooks and spoils me on the good days. I could tolerate him but last week’s incidents got me thinking. I returned home at about 9pm and found him bitter. He ignored my explanation for returning late and started slapping me, got the clothes I had just bought and set them ablaze. The worst part is that i have done more than 20 Abortions for him, also some weeks back he got a razor and cut my braids because “he gave me the money to plait my hair”. And just few days back he beat me up just because i returned from the saloon late and did not cook food for him. I still love him so much but I fear it could get worse. He takes good care of me and regularly gives me money i think if i continue been a good Girl he might reduce the beating. Please help.







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Next time ur going down mysister.this guy is going to kill you Mysister.just quiet that relationships mysister. Atherwys ur family is going to barie u
You are just non woman.please stop boring us and do something for yourself or leave with him because from my understanding u deserve each other.
U will soon go six feet continue with boyfriend stupid u and if u don’t know what to post u go off line I just have got to say u had 20abortion u have killed ur unborn children finish so beta oil urself